Slowly back on track

Well, after a week of losing ground, Arla is doing some therapy again.  But she has just not regained the level of progress she was making her first week in rehab.  We are still unsure what has caused this setback.  Nothing is really jumping out as a cause for the lack of energy and ability to do therapies. 

Her CT scans showed no additional strokes.  Her chest x-rays were clear.  She may have had a bladder infection, but does not have one now.  We do not know the results of the EEG which would have been looking for seizures.  In addition, the medical team seems to rule out depression, but we are sure this may be a factor in her lethargy.  And there is the fact that Arla had not been feeling well for the last 6 months or so.  She was hiding it well but was just not at full power all summer.  So more questions and advocacy must be done to ensure Arla gets the best care possible. 

One certainty is that Arla will not be staying much longer at the Rehab Hospital.  This is an intensive therapy facility.  She must be able to do 3 hours of therapy a day.  Arla is just not tolerating that level of therapy, and in fact, in some instances, just cannot participate. Therefore, at some time in the near future, Arla will be moved to a skilled nursing facility.  She still has the potential to improve but this will need to happen at another facility. 

But despite all these setbacks and disappointments, God is good.  He really is.  We hope those of you who read this blog believe that.  God carries us in times of trial.  He holds us up and sustains us.  Only with God can you stand and face the enemy… a stroke or the loss of a job or heartache or weakness or dispair.  There is no fear when God walks with us.  God, through Christ Jesus, even overcomes the ultimate enemy….death.  So worry, depression, loss, tiredness, or change are no match for our God. 

God works miracles.  After a week of suffering with pain and illness, Mary Ann called at 8 a.m. to make a doctor’s appointment.  The morning was totally open for her doctor, so she chose a 9:20 appointment.   In 5 minutes, she located two of her fabulous colleagues to cover one class and the beginning of a second one. Mary Ann taught one class then left work at 9:10 a.m.  In less than one hour, she was seen by her doctor, was diagnosed, was prescribed medication, filled the prescription, and returned to her classroom.  That was God.  Could it have been good luck?  Perhaps, but it is important that we thank God for that which he gives us.  God set that schedule in motion that day.  And God provided a way for Mary Ann to get her medical issues addressed without missing more work.    

 Lord, please be with all those who feel they are at the end of their rope.  Comfort them, Lord.  Give them peace and focus as they seek You for the answers.   Provide answers to all those families of the ill who are needing advice and comfort.  Take away the physical and mental pain from those who are working to regain their strength.   Circle our medical personnel with love and give them prosperity in their work and their lives.  Thank you for the miracles large and small that You have set in motion today.  Amen!

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3 Responses to Slowly back on track

  1. Joan Sterrett's avatar Joan Sterrett says:

    I say AMEN to your last paragraph. GOD IS GREAT. I pray that Arla will gain strength. When she is moved will you post her address? That would be great. Thanks Harold, Mary Ann, Janeen, and Carl for all your encouragement you give to your mother. Love you guys

  2. Lori Straley's avatar Lori Straley says:

    God is Great!!! But even He rested on the 7th day! maybe Arla just needs a day of rest too. I know I said this before and was shot down but think about it… our bodies need rest to rejuvenate and we all might be surprised after she gets to a skilled nursing facility and gets some rest, she may just be able to get right back into the routine of strenuous rehab again.. especially with God on her side!!!! I keep praying and BELIEVING!!!

    • Lori, have you seen Arla? Mom needs more than rest. Yes, she is tired and she is sick. She needs a miracle. She also had a massive stroke and was in the best rehab facility possible. And I am not going to argue if they were working her too hard. That is not even the point. She is too ill to handle that rehab. Something has been wrong with mom for the last 6 months. So now we have a stroke AND whatever else was going on. If rest was going to fix it, she would be better now. She has rested for 4 weeks. We want Mom to be able to rehab. If she does not, she will be lying in a nursing home for the rest of her life, and that is the reality. If you want to start questioning what we are doing for Mom, you are going to find out very quickly what my attitude is really like. We fight for what is right for Mom everyday. And we get angry and we get upset. And we pray our butts off day and night… just not for Mom but for everyone because it is what God wants us to do. And, therefore, we are tired and we snap. So SNAP!!!! Sorry, I know this blog and it’s comments are supposed to be uplifting… but this is the reality. While we are not upset about her being transferred to skilled nursing, it is not the outcome we had hoped for. The emotional roller coaster is overwhelming.

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